Landscape of Marriage – True Origins10.26.08

The other night Rob and I were at a party with some of his friends.  One of them remembered Rob had just made his stage debut in the short scene I wrote for the latest Me and Them production and asked, “So, how did the play go?  What was it about?”   Rob started talking about the experience while I remained quiet.  He beams when he talks about it and I enjoy watching him and letting him have the spotlight.  Of course, he gets details wrong, and he doesn’t articulate the themes of the play the way I would, but that’s okay.  I’m usually close enough by to jump in add my own side to the story; correct him when he says we did the play on Flatbush Ave…

The one thing I never add is the true origin of the scene.  I tell people the half-truth and I leave out the truly mushy stuff; that the scene that I wrote and performed with my husband was written as a gift to him.  I was inspired, in a way, by our wedding vows.  In them, I told Rob that one of the reasons I was marrying him was because he makes every day, ordinary things sublime.  I really believe that’s what makes a marriage worthwhile.  It’s not a romantic idyll – don’t let yourself get fooled.  Your soul-mate will never put his dishes in the dishwasher even if the sink is completely full and you will have vicious fights about it.  Your sensitive lover will not write you songs each day on his acoustic guitar but will shave in the sink and never clean it out and you will wonder, “Why am I here again?”   But if you’re like the couple in Landscape of Marriage you get something better.  You get the freedom to be yourself and be totally accepted and loved for who you are.

 

Lucy and Desi on marriage

It was an honor sharing this with my husband.  We had the easiest time rehearsing and developing our performance together.  It was my first time doing live theater in over 10 years and having Rob by my side gave me confidence.  In fact, I will keep collaborating with my husband in different ways as I continue to write and work with Me and Them. 

And really, it gets a little lonely being the only married-over-30 in the group.  I need to keep that guy around for company at the very least!

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What next?10.09.08

We’ve been getting some lovely feedback -

Have further inspired current contributors -

 

And have already been approached by a number of people wanting to contribute and participate in the next show: some very talented writers and directors; as well as a London theatre group who are considering partnering with us.  Thrilling stuff.  I’ll be meeting with our potential partner group in London in a couple of weeks, when I go out to speak at Power to the Pixel, and will post some video of our conversation here.

This cross-cultural idea is especially exciting as it throws up a number of opportunities. A few things we have loosely discussed are:

Swapping content with the London group and vice versa: we each perform the other group’s previous pieces for our next show(s). Additionally we could set up either recorded conference calls or webcam chats between select uk/us actors and directors to discuss their differing approaches on the same pieces.

Or, an actor/creatives swap – a couch surfing sort of thing. Or some kind of online writing collaboration – I’m particularly interested in what just happened with the team version of the flash fiction/creative writing championships online.

Online collaborative writing is also an exciting concept because it could mean this is something that could also be done with contributors from different sides of the US, rather than just limited to NY and LDN based groups. I’ve been looking into a few tools for this already – including blog plugins, wikis and looking at previous or current projects such as One Million Monkeys Typing and Story Mash.  A pleasant surprise this time round was to find a strong team of writers through this process and it would be great to fully stretch and utilize their skills.

Another option would be to use Show Two contributors to craft a longer story out of a series of short ones a la Paris J’Taime.

I’ve also been mulling on how to deal with our growing cast/crew (we need a new name for this) that are potentially out-growing our blog resources in terms of community. Should we branch out to set up a community on Ning or is it too soon to dilute our online presence?  Either way, it’s an exciting thought that when one of us wants to make a feature we’ll have a considerable number of talented people we are instantly connected to, worked with before, trust and know their strengths and weaknesses.

Some great feedback I had on the night of Show Two was from a previous contributor, Eric Contractor who while not involved in this show, came down and enthused afterwards that what we thought we had built was a shout-back to old theater where company comes first and individual egos second, allowing a place to try new stuff quickly and without fear: an interesting -and flattering- insight.

Another thought I had was skill-share workshops – it transpired that two of our actors – Eljon & KIra -also trained as cinematographers, and both Laura and Jane are keen to learn more about blogging. Laura also has extensive trained experience working with actors, exercises etc which I would love to know – it’d be good to do this in a more structured environment where people learn valuable skills from each other for free that they can then put to use at a later point helping each other in a more effective way.

I hope to hold a roundtable for the Show 2 writers and directors to learn what was of value to them in this experience and to hear their thoughts and feedback. If we manage to get everyone in the same place for this we’ll post that here too.

It’s an exciting time and our hope is to use the enthusiasm and excitement we have right now to keep this moving forward at the same pace, to keep momentum while making sure we focus on the right elements of what we’ve planted.

Any thoughts, ideas or questions would be greatly received, this is an open conversation. And anyone wishing to join us please email via the form on the contact page, we are always excited to ‘meet’ talented people – wherever you are!

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    Me & Them is a collective of writers, directors, actors and assorted creatives who put on events comprising of original one-act plays, performed in art spaces in Brooklyn. Many of the group have interactive marketing backgrounds from agencies such as R/GA, Organic and Deep Focus. The onus of the collective is a focus on openness, experimentation and a do-it-now mentality.